Family Mediation Solicitors Kilkenny & Dublin

Family mediation is a voluntary and non-binding way of resolving disputes, often used during separation or divorce. For many families in Kilkenny, mediation offers a constructive and less stressful alternative to court proceedings, helping couples find solutions that work for them without the pressure of litigation.

If you take the court route for separation or divorce, a judge decides on key matters such as child custody, maintenance, and the family home. Mediation, by contrast, allows couples to collaborate on their own agreement, supported by professional guidance. Where needed, additional experts — such as financial advisers or child specialists — can be involved to give extra clarity.

How does divorce mediation work?

In mediation, a separated couple attends structured sessions with a trained mediator. The mediator helps them explore solutions on issues that matter most — arrangements for children, financial support, and housing. For families in Kilkenny, this local process can feel more personal and less daunting than court.

It’s important to remember that mediation is not a substitute for legal advice. In fact, it works best alongside guidance from an experienced family law solicitor. Speaking with a solicitor in Kilkenny or Dublin ensures your rights are protected and that any agreement reached is fair and lasting.

The role of the mediator

A mediator is impartial. They do not take sides but guide conversations step by step, ensuring both parties are heard. Their aim is to foster cooperation and help both sides reach an agreement that feels practical and balanced.

How long does divorce mediation take?

Mediation usually involves three to six sessions of about one hour each. If agreement is reached, the mediator prepares a Mediated Agreement for both parties to sign. This becomes legally binding once your solicitor drafts it into a formal Separation Agreement.

Discussions during mediation are confidential and “without prejudice”, meaning they cannot be used in court if mediation breaks down. Once an agreement is finalised, your solicitor in Kilkenny (or Dublin if more convenient) will prepare the formal documentation, a process that typically takes around two months.

Does mediation cost less than going to court?

Yes. Court proceedings are often drawn out, stressful, and costly. Mediation, by comparison, requires fewer solicitor hours and avoids the high expense of contested litigation. While mediator fees apply, the financial and emotional savings are significant.

Most importantly, mediation gives you control over the outcome rather than leaving decisions in the hands of a judge.

Why choose Mary Molloy & Company Solicitors?

With offices in Kilkenny and Dublin, and more than 35 years of family law experience, our solicitors provide trusted advice throughout the mediation process. We prepare you for sessions, review proposals, and ensure any agreement is legally sound. Our approach is rooted in reducing conflict and finding long-term solutions that work for families in Kilkenny and beyond.